Note from the author: this article was first published in the Dr Ruthbard’s Love & Relationships column in Selwyn Monthly Review (SMR), June 2012 edition.
Aye, behold the infamous Bricklane Maiden Post. Hear ye! Hear ye!
Learning how to pick up girls and make them fall in love with you shouldn’t be hard at all. The truth is that most guys tend to over-complicate things when it comes to loving and seducing women. If you want quality relationships with women then you have got to work for it! Forget what the guru’s tell you. Most of them are clueless as hell and they only want your money. Stop spending money on worthless ebooks unless you know for sure that the instructor is legitimate. Only learn from proven experts like Mystery, Neil Strauss, Derek Rake and Johnny Malone. Ditch the rest.
Now what you need really is the right set of tools that you can use to pick up women anywhere you go. In this short article I will share with you some of the best techniques on picking up women and how you can use the same techniques to immediately improve your seduction game by at least five (5) times. Read on to discover what you can do to pick up girls and make them fall in love with you effortlessly starting from today…
First, research as much as possible when it comes to learning dating and seduction. A good source of seduction knowledge is the Internet. Join groups of your local seduction lair and start networking with your peers. These can then be your wingmen when you are out there approaching women. Also, check out blogs like the famous Seduction FAQ and Fast Seduction. Using these dating tricks you will be able to make any woman fall in love with you pretty easily. Always remember that there are guys out there who are good with women and all you need to do is to learn from them directly. There is no point reinventing the wheel when it comes to trying to understand women psychology.
Also, practice picking up girls at public places. Now you must understand that learning pick up from reading seductionfaq.com is not enough… you must be out there DOING things in order to learn about dating. Don’t be a keyword jockey. Approach women and talk to them to build rapport. Once you have done this enough you would have built yourself your very own seduction arsenal which is invaluable.
If you can, learn techniques like fractionation, the Dark Rake Method and hypnosis. These are advanced techniques, but they work wonderfully well. Advanced persuasion is definitely very powerful, and you can use these techniques to “hack” into a woman’s mind and make her fall in love with you. These are also known as “female loophole” techniques that are super effective but very controversial. Use them at your own risk!
Finally, be nice to look at. Ignore gurus who tell you that looks don’t matter in dating and relationships. That is total hogwash. Looks DO matter. You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt but it always helps if you are at least pleasant looking. No women want to go out with a total slob with a poor fashion sense.
SPECIAL ADDENDUM FROM CHARLES FRANK WEASLEY, PhD
I am constantly amazed with how most guys completely FAIL at dating. At the same time I realize that it is not your fault if you can’t seem to get a girl to like you. All you need is a good set of dating techniques and tricks which are proven time and again to work when it comes to impressing women.
Anyone who thinks that he could just learn fractionation seduction and start to get good results at dating is delusional! In fact, it’s doubly hard when the woman that you want to seduce already has a boyfriend. In this respect, learning how to seduce a woman with a boyfriend is indeed tricky – unless you already know some Boyfriend Destroyer techniques. Here at the Bricklane Bookstore we have a couple of resources on boyfriend destroyers, but we usually reserve those because these techniques can be really dangerous when they are in the hands of the unscrupulous. Some men want to use boyfriend destroyers on married women. We certainly do not want to be breaking up families!
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